I took up golf when I met Judy in 1984.
Being an athlete of some sport all my life, that I would want to take
up the game didn't surprise me. What surprised me was how danged hard
a game it was to master. Did I say master? I don't think you ever do.
I became a decent player rather quickly...especially given the
fact that I didn't have much time to play or practice. For those of
you who know the game, at one point I was an 8 handicap. Generally
though I stayed in the 11-13 range.
But I was never the
champion that Judy was and I never quite was able to best her in our
club's championship. That is until 2002. That year the heavens parted
and I did.
The tournament had three rounds and I was in the
lead going into the last. I played the front nine flawlessly...in the
zone, as they say. Starting the back nine I had several strokes to
spare, but as it came to mind that I could actually win this thing, the
body stiffened and the swing started to fail. Tension begat more
tension and well, you know how it goes. When the "bleeding" was about
out of control, I landed in a green-side bunker. At the time, my
coming out of a bunker was at best a 50-50 proposition. If I didn't
make this shot, I could kiss my tournament good-bye. I did and it gave
me enough positive thought to right myself to the point of hanging on
to my lead...by a hair.
Our group got the 18th hole. All I had
to do is par the hole and hope nobody made a birdie and I'd win. Not
so fast. My tee shot was shanked. I had to waste a shot to pitch out.
Meanwhile, Judy had gone in the water and the other player was in the
middle of the fairway. I had to stiff the pin and sink the putt. That
was my only chance. I stepped up to the ball and lo and behold hit the
prettiest iron shot into the green that I'd ever hit. Well, I guess I
had hit others, but this felt the prettiest! My competitor hit a good
shot too, but her putt was longer. She missed...I made...I won.
That's a photo of
us playing in Prince Edward Island back in 2000. I just realized I
have no photos of my big day save the one on the plaque I got and
that's back in Florida. Incredible. Ce la vie.
My high didn't
last too long. Later that same year (2002) I hurt my shoulder while
playing in a tournament in Alabama. It was cold and the course was
long. I hadn't realized it at the time, but it worked itself into some
major hurt. By year's end I could barely recognize my game. The
shoulder nor the game ever fully returned to what they were and since
then golf has taken a backseat to other interests...like photography!